It’s Like He Haunts Me With Negativity

Everything was looking so positive, I had more than one option in trailers, multiple rv pads to choose from and all he has to do is comment on my blog and the negativity starts in my Life again.

I called on the trailer west of Mission and it got taken out of there a long time ago the woman said so I don’t know what my friend was talking about. I asked about empty lots there and they have some but not with enough power for a trailer as big as mine.

Oh well, I still had Everglades right? There is no way they will allow year round rentals, mother even with a rent to own agreement. So that’s that for now any way. Lord I have to get out of that little trailer and closer to civilization; I HAVE to.

I have plans that rely on me having the internet and I am going crazy up there. Its been raining non stop for days and the poor dogs are getting so grumpy, I’m grumpy.
Oh well something will come up right?

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18 Replies to “It’s Like He Haunts Me With Negativity”

  1. ignore ignore ignore why cant you block him. you should check each comment before its published. its going to be alright love, sending you a hug.

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    1. Thanks Dee, you are my one woman cheering section today and I needed it. I was just summed because I really loved that lot at Everglades but there must be a reason why it didn’t work out, something better must be up ahead. I am just so sick of this little trailer it gets me down and its a constant frustration for me. I try to just let it go but when JC started his bs and he is living off of some woman after bleeding me dry and I’m still struggling because I paid MY debt and he uses me as his excuse for not paying his step dad it hit me hard. If I don’t see him or hear from him I do fine. I haven’t contacted him; even changed how I operate my business so he couldn’t “happen” to be there when I was.

      I can’t possibly moderate every comment; I don’t have the internet where I live and have to go to my g/f’s to use her connection or do it all on my phone. I just don’t have time. I have to drive 1/2 hour just to get the net on my phone. I have to work, look for a place to move and i have to also walk the dogs etc. Just not enough hours in the day. As it is I often miss someone’s comment and feel so bad. I don’t know if ti know my living arrangement but I am in a tiny holiday trailer with no running water, no cell service, tv, internet, sweet. I have electricity and a roof over my head that’s it. Its getting cold and time nights i sleep with all my clothes and coat on because its so cold in here. I need to get out before I can do anything else.

      I don’t worry about JC commenting here, I just delete it but I know how vicious he can be and his blog is full of venom, hatred and blatant lies. I don’t care what he says to anyone that knows us but he is using my company name and that is my customers etc. I an going to the police but I wanted to send JC one warning to cease and desist or I would see him in court. I really don’t want to do battle with him but I don’t want to cave in either. I am not going to be bullied into silence. I don’t think you can block him on wordpress. I have him blocked on my email and Facebook.

      Thanks for your concern and support I really appreciate it!!!
      Hugs
      Carrie

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      1. There is no way to block comments, only moderate them on WordPress.com. I have seen some other suggestions on what you can also do, but nothing I would even think to suggest because it would draw away traffic from your page.

        Aside from that I hope you find a better place or a better place finds you. Hopefully something positive will be over the horizon.

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  2. I did notice that he haunts me post was on halloween-something in the air perhaps. You know he is never going to agree with you so somehow you need to consider the source and let it roll off your back. Just breathe and know that what you are looking for will come to you but perhaps not in the time-frame of your choosing. Trust yourself and your own truth. Youre doing great just keep positive. It will be alright. hugs to you

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    1. Mountainmae , thankyou so much; it was just a momentary slump, I am back to almost normal (I don’t know if I’ve ever been normal!) lol I am sure there is a good reason I difm’t get into Everglades; maybe it wouldn’t have been good for me to go back to where JC and I loved. I saw some people there when I went and I am associated with JC immediately, and maybe I always would be to those people. Plus it is on a flood plain so I could end up in a real mess. Something will come up, I just haven’t talked to the right person yet.

      As for JC, he can rot in hell. His eyes should be brown he’s so full of shit. The more I thought about the things he said the more I realized he is just making himself look foolish because he contradicts himself. And I know its just a matter of time and he will hang himself. I am going to the police though because he has bullied me for the last time.
      Thanks for the the support Mountainmae,you are always there with words of encouragement. I appreciate it!!
      Hugs
      Carrie

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        1. Mountainmae, I am working on reinventing myself, even hauling scrap has left a bad taste in my mouth because he was part of it at times and he worked so hard to destroy my business I lost a lot of my enthusiasm for it. I have a few ideas, its just so dang hard without a phone or the net where I live.

          I appreciate your support Mountainmae
          Thanks for stopping by
          Carrie

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  3. Have you entered anything into your “Comment Blacklist”. I found it under Settings – Discussion Settings, then scroll down to the bottom. It says: “When a comment contains any of these words in its content, name, URL, e-mail, or IP, it will be marked as spam.” It could work, and if he figures it out and switches things to make sure he gets on the post, then you have evidence of stalking.

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  4. i think its amazing what you do,with the little resources you have. you can monitor and approve comments twice a week, or if you prefer just delete his shit before reading it, for Godness sake dont reply to it , its gonna piss you off, and set you back, block emails and him. Youre gonna be fine. I think you are amazing. kick his ass to the curb for good. put a notice in your church and town and surrounds saying you need a place to put your trailer, you never know who may respond.

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  5. Melanie gets the grand prize!!! Which is my unending gratitude; (sorry its all I can afford) I went in where you said and I ticked the box where comments go to moderation unless they have commented and been approved once before. ( did that make sense?). So once a person his commented once and been approved then their comments don’t go to moderation. PLUS I put his IP #, and the 3 email addresses that I know of in the box and his name and his initials. That should cover it; he’ll have to put alot of effort into it now. I should have copied his post off his blog when I was in there because now I have to go back so I have something to show the cops. I hate to go in there it makes me feel dirty but I want to stop him too. I feel do much better now that I’ve blocked him off here though.

    Thank you Melanie!!

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  6. I am going to try and follow your Blog because the rawness with which you speak, and the vunerability of your situation command my attention. There is a way forward for you but I don not understand enough as yet to know what that is.. But there always is a way forward. I am determined to help you find it. . I don’t know enough about your situation to comment usefully, but you have my support.

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    1. Countingducks, thank you so much, I am sure there is a way forward also; I just haven’t found the right door yet, shoot maybe its a window; but I’m determined to find it. I’m not dead in the water yet. I have had some pretty big hurdles in my life but this one has been my longest, most daunting and painful yet. I don’t know where I would have been without the moral support I have gotten here.

      Any time you want to throw your two cents worth in feel free!
      Hugs
      Carrie

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  7. Hey, brown eyes are beautiful. 🙂

    And I cannot believe he comments on your blog. Really?! I mean, really. No offense to you (since you did date the guy and all), but he does not come across as a man who would even know what a blog is, yet alone how to run one.

    I don’t have a FB account (Thank Gawd!), but I do have a Twitter account. The ex N has both and I have to force myself not to look at either. I just can’t right now. Maybe in May. Lol. I haven’t blocked his email, Twitter or texts or number. I don’t see a reason for that now because we aren’t speaking. Now if he was harrassing me the way JC is, I would definitely block every type of communication.

    I know how hard it is to feel okay and a little stronger and then BAM! there they are again. You have done this for much longer than I have, but I know it still hurts all the same.

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