It is no surprise that the narcissist is a pain in the ass and it is rather fitting that a person could get Hemrroids from them.
This post might be too much information but I notice a conversation between some people on one of the forums speaking about migraines etc and thought I would expound on the health issues that they cause and how you might not ass(there’s that would again) ociate it to the narcissist.
After the mask dropped with JC I had a horribly painful experience with pollups on my bowel. I was in excruciating pain and begged him to take me to emergency. As most of you know a narcissist doesn’t know the meaning of the word sympathy, all he knows is that it falls somewhere between shit and syphilis in the dictionary.
After hours of literally rolling on the floor in agony he huffed and puffed and took me to the hospital. It took two shots of Demerol to stop the pain and JC actually cried and apologized for not believing I was in that much pain. Mind you he didn’t stick around and comfort me. They kept me in the hospital for 24 hours and then he picked me up.
After that I ended up having Hemrroids on a regular basis. It isn’t something you generally discuss with people but one day I mentioned it to a trusted close friend. She said, “You know they are because if JC?”
She said, “No I am serious. Haven’t you heard the saying; someone is a pain in the ass? Where do you think that coming from?”
I had never thought about it but it made sense. If a person stresses you out you might tense up and have a “pain in your neck” so it made sense they could cause a “pain in your ass”.
Laugh if you will but I tested this theory over the course of my ten years with JC. We broke up at least every couple of years, when we were living separately I never had Hemrroids; as soon as we got back together and he wasn’t on his best behaviour they came back.
Since I moved out 2 years ago, even though those 2 years have been very stressful I have not been afflicted with Hemrroids. There is only one conclusion you can come to; Narcissists cause Hemrroids!
Now there are other things they cause like migraines, ulcers, hives, anxiety attacks, heart attacks, high blood pressure, drug and alcohol dependency, PTSD, insomnia, and numerous other things.
What kind of health issues did being with a narcissist cause you if any?