I hesitate to write this because I don’t want to feed the sick ego of the son-of-a-bitch and it only goes to prove how sick he really is but I want to put a warning out there.
For those of you new to the blog, around November of last year JC started coming in and commenting, that is why I moderate comments now. He told many lies but one of them was that I used drugs. When I deleted his messages he started coming in under different aliases but I was smart enough to track the IP number on the messages and figure out they were all coming from the same location and must have been him, because of the location. One of the aliases he used was Norma Rockwell, I had to laugh at that.
In one of the posts from Norma he mentioned that any computer geek could hook into the GPS on a person’s phone.
( I saved that message) . Then one day after I had started at CCon I got a call on my cell phone, since I had very poor reception where I was living I always let them go to voice mail and returned them when I got down the hill.
I got down the hill and parked at the Husky gas station and checked for messages. There were none so I called the number back and it went to JC’s voicemails. You would have thought I got an electric shock the way I dropped the phone.
I literally dropped it and had to pick it up to disconnect the call. Immediately I wondered what he was up to and remembered the veiled threat in Norma’s message. I had heard some where there is a program that you can install on someone’s phone. You call them and when they pick up or call you back you are hooked up to them.
But what could I do but wait.
Then I got let go from CCon, they said it was because I wasn’t able to do the job and I feel I got a bum deal all the way around there but whatever I dealt with it and will deal with it again because of recent knowledge I have proving JC had something to do with it.
The day I got let go I was told on top of other things they had received an anonymous phone call saying someone had seen me drinking and doing crack at the Husky station. For one thing I lived 5 minutes from the Husky and still do, why on earth would I sit at the Husky doing drugs and not just go home? I was flabbergasted and just said someone was lying. My immediate though was JC but thought to say anything would sound crazy. Like why on earth would a normal person phone and do that? Because he is a psychopath that’s why!!! And what business person would take the word of an anonymous phone caller when they know you are out of a domestic violent relationship. But I also know how convincing JC can be. But they offered to finance a truck for me and they said it was nothing personal so I figured maybe they didn’t believe it. I really wasn’t feeling well at the time and didn’t feel like battling anyway.
As it turned out it all worked out for the best anyway because I can’t work any more, I got enough hours for my disability benefits and working at CCon enabled me to buy my little place. I was and am just grateful for the blessings in my life.
Well the other day Tikk said that she still checked on her ex occasionally for safety reasons and I thought maybe I should see if JC was out there and sure enough. I Google one of the Usernames he usually used and up pops a WordPress blog with ladywithatruck in the title of it.
It was started in July and so far most of it consists of blatant lies about me.
He is still going on about how happy he is with M and mentioned they moved. She owned her house so he has managed to manipulate her into leaving her family and support system behind. I sure hope for her sake she didn’t sell her house. One minute he was criticizing her for being such a bitch and the next she was the love of his life. He’s so out of touch with how a real person relates and thinks he doesn’t even know when he is contradicting himself. M must be going through hell by now.He said she got him out of debt, guess that’s where the house went.
He told so many lies about me it is amazing lightening didn’t strike him dead, that I have a criminal record and he doesn’t, that I stole $30,000 from him, omg it goes on and on and he says shit about my brother and son and is critical of me because I haven’t talked about their troubles. Why would I? neither one is a narcissist or a psychopath; if they were I would have talked about them. JC still just can’t believe I am not writing this about him, I am writing about domestic violence. At the very end he says and Carrie lost her job at CCon because someone saw her smoking crack in the company truck.
Add 1 + 1 and you get one big scum sucking soulless, bottom feeder who hasn’t got a life and is so upset he didn’t destroy me he is still trying 2 1/2 years later !!!
If he was so Fucking happy with Marissa he would get on with his life, I sure have and I am sure if he knew the truth; THAT EVERYTHING WORKED OUT AND HE DIDN’T DESTROY ME AND I AM THE HAPPIEST I HAVE EVER BEEN, he would be totally pissed off.
But he would never know that because I am not going to comment on his blog, I am not going to read his blog; I know all I need to know. HE HASN’T CHANGED, HE IS STILL A PATHOLOGICAL LIAR.
He said he has quit going to my blog and he is DONE rotflmao!!
I can’t tell you how many times he has said he IS DONE. It doesn’t hurt me any more. I was DONE long ago and he needs to get a life.
I mention this for several reason’s.
1. does any one know if I have a legal leg to stand on because I lost my job?
2. To give everyone a heads up because he might contact people from my blog and if he does I would like to know.
3. Someone using a name of one of my followers and my email address commented on someone else’s blog and she contacted me.
4. AND last but not least, the longer you are with these soulless bastards the more they want to destroy you; get out early and save yourself.
I am not going to shut my blog down. I believe in what I am doing. I remain confident that I am doing it for the right reason’s. If I wanted to be vindictive I would have named his full name and various aliases, but I didn’t . Any one wanting info on JC could Google his name and my blog would not come up. On the other hand anyone reading HIS blog would immediately come over to my blog to see what I am saying. As far as I can tell, once again his efforts to destroy me have the potential to drive up my viewers and inform even more people about the real JC.
God is good and he has turned every thing JC tried to do to hurt me into something positive.
You know sometimes you just have to sit back and let the person hang themselves. As example A I present JC.
If you do grace my blog with your presence JC, I only have one thing to say; get over it!! Quit blaming everyone else for your problems and grow up, be a man. Oh I know he can’t be a man and he is probably loving that I even mentioned him here. But he hasn’t gotten to me other than to make me want to puke and make me so frikkin happy he is done with me.
Hugs to everyone!!
- Acceptance and Gratitude (ladywithatruck.com)