5 Early Warning Signs You Are With A Narcissist

Here is a link to an awesome article on early warning signs you are with A narcissist. I saw every single one of them and didn’t know what I was seeing, at the most I thought he was a little selfish and that I could “fix” him.
That should be our first sign- we think we can fix them. We are so special we are going to do what no one before us was able to do; our special love is going to make them considerate, honest; faithful, (after all he only screwed around because she was such a psycho bitch, he only hit her because she wasn’t rational like you)

Anyway I found this article interesting. I was surprised when he says beware of the guy who exbounds on his wonderful childhood. JC always talked about his wonderful childhood.

http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/3331293

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Carrie

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6 Replies to “5 Early Warning Signs You Are With A Narcissist”

  1. this is spot on!! Even though this is written describing a man, it fit my ex wife including the pedestal description that I had not seen before. When she discovered 7 years into our marriage that I had feet of clay, I was quite unprepared for the following 11 years of hell. Now I see why the change in our relationship happened and it explains her behavior though it doesn’t excuse it. Thank you Carrie!

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    1. I am glad I was able to provide some answers for you. when the discarding starts we are so broadsided we don’t know what hit us or why; shell shocked and paying for a crime we didn’t commit. No there is never an excuse for the abuse they dish out. i didn’t understand for so long and used to say to JC, “I would never blame you for not loving me, there is no crime in that; but it is wrong to not love someone, not let them go and be angry at them because you don’t love them.” I didn’t realize that he can’t love anyone and no one will ever love them enough.
      you are welcome.
      HUgs
      Carrie

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  2. Mine writes me poems and tells me he things he doesnt exhibit to me ..like another person out there…nice for a bit then off he goes into drug induced land and I am the enemy..

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