A few women have voiced concern about the N being able to hack into their phone or computer. If he is willing to invest a bit of cash and time he can know every move you make.
Why would he care if he has a new woman and seems so happy? Because he is a Narcissist that’s why!!
I know for a fact that my ex had a hidden camera that he used to watch me while he was in the barn and I was in the trailer. I found it while dusting. I also know for a fact that he video taped us having sex on at least 2 occasions. Because his son found one of them on his laptop.
But he expected me to believe that he did not have some sort of transmitting device planted under the trailer and going out to the barn where he listened in on the conversations his sister and I had when he was not in the trailer. But it was his sister that found the wire going from the barn, over the fence and under the trailer.
I suspected he had some sort of tracking device on my truck because one day while driving with his sister in my truck we heard a male’s voice come from the dashboard of the truck. It sounded like someone talking on a cell phone. We all looked at the glove box; even Kato. It was Kato looking at the glove box that convinced Denise (his sister) and I weren’t imagining it.
Only a few weeks earlier JC had insisted on putting a new radio in my truck, which confused me because it was exactly like the one he took out. I had asked him why he bothered; it was the same radio, not a CD player, a simple stock radio like the one in the truck. He had some explanation that didn’t make sense to me and I was kinda pissed because after he put in the new radio my heater stopped working.
After we heard the voice Denise took everything out of the glove box but didn’t find anything unusual. We checked under the hood but of course had no idea what we were looking for and didn’t know how to get the dashboard off to check behind it. I asked a few people what they thought and they all looked at me like I was crazy. But where did the voice come from? The radio was not on and we most definitely heard a voice. A transmitter can pick up on other frequencies such as baby monitors and cell phones.
After my heart attack he had come to me full of lies and apologies, professing his undying love. He said he wanted to help me be successful like him. I told him it was over and I couldn’t be his friend. He interrupted me and told me to just let it play out. I found out later through Facebook that he had proposed only a few days prior to coming to me. I sent a lengthy email to his new woman and him describing our whole relationship and then didn’t hear from him again.
Time goes on and he finds my blog, he had mentioned in one of his comments on my blog, using the name of Norma Rockwell; that any techie can hack into someone’s cell phone using their GPS.
Then I got the job at CCon. I was still living at the hell trailer but working for CCon when one morning I get a phone call on my cell. I didn’t recognize the number and had intermittent cell service at the trailer so didn’t answer the call. When I got down the hill I parked at the Husky Station and checked for messages; there were none so I called the number back. It went to JC’s voicemail. I dropped the phone in my rush to disconnect. I immediately was suspicious; why would he call and not leave a message and then 1/2 hour later not pick up the phone when I called back. I immediately suspected somehow he had connected to my phone, but what could I do? Anyone I mentioned it to thought I was paranoid.
Time goes on and I get a company truck to drive, I move into the resort and because of the trucks size I must park it on the road beside the resort.
After a couple of months Colin the mechanic is replacing the deck on the truck and comes to me and says, “Do you know anyone who would want to track your where abouts?”
I asked why he was asking and he opened his hand and there was what looked like a couple of odd shaped nails or something. He told me it was a tracking device that he found under the deck of my truck. I told him about JC.
At some point shortly after the owner at CCon got a call from an “anonymous” concerned citizen saying that they had seen me parked at the Husky Station in the company truck smoking crack and drinking Mike’s Hard Lemonade. As bizarre as it is the company believed him and I was let go. They said it wasn’t just the phone call, that I wasn’t productive enough and they wanted a young muscle bound guy who could chuck steel. That was not what I was hired for and I have since sent a long letter disputing the whole reason I was let go; just because of the principle of the matter, but due to my health it all worked out anyway and to fight it in court would be stressful and I value my health more than being dragged back into shit JC has caused in my life.
But when they said this caller had seen me at the Husky I was even more convinced the call that morning must have been JC hooking into my GPS some how. The thing is the Husky is 5 minutes from my home, why on earth would I sit at the Husky doing drugs and drinking when I could just go home? It doesn’t even make sense, but CCon would not have thought of that when a cool calm and collected citizen called them. And how better to ruin my life than to get me fired.
Then I hear that the neighbour complained about fighting coming from my place in the middle of the night. I text messaged about it to several people and I got it resolved because it never happened.
But a couple of months later the previous owner who holds my mortgage calls me and is angry because she just got an email saying the fighting going on is disrupting all my neighbors. I tell her there is no fighting going on, I never have company. I wrote a letter to the management board and went in person to talk to them and they didn’t have a clue what I was talking about. They hadn’t had any complaints and no one had contacted the previous owner. So who did contact the previous owner??
Then I found JC’s blog, any time he talks about me he says I am a meth addict; he said it in comments and now in his blog. He always goes on about how much money he had to spend to keep me in drugs. As with all narcissists he is accusing me of what he undoubtedly was doing himself. But I noticed that the concerned citizen said I was smoking crack. So he doesn’t want anyone to think he made the call so he changed the drug name. In his blog he says that I laid on the couch every day while he worked 24/7 keeping me supplied in Tim Horton’s, my vodka coolers, meth, and smokes. I thought why would he say vodka coolers when he knows I always used to drink Mike’s. Then he mentioned that I had been fired from CCon because a “concerned citizen” called the owner of CCon. I had to wonder how he would know that seeing as I had told no one. I immediately copied and saved his blog entries and then text messaged a friend that I had proof he had made the call to CCon.
I went back into his blog after about an hour and the part about why I got fired had been removed.
Kinda makes you go hmmmmm ………
Another thing he says in his blog is that I am from Chilliwack, to make it look like he doesn’t know where I live.
It is all subtle things that someone might not pick up on unless they were familiar with how a narcissists mind works.
It is very dangerous. If someone tells enough people the same lies about a person eventually; because of the gossip grape vine, it becomes fact.
So far in my mind he is only hanging himself. He has gone too far in his elaborate account of how I used and abused him for anyone I know to believe him but it is scary to think that after almost 3 years and even though he is with the love of his life he is still that intent on ruining my life.
He uses ladywithatruck and my name in his blog in an obvious attempt to have it come up when people Google ladywithatruck. That is one reason I don’t comment on his blog; because any place I comment will appear when someone Googles my name. I figure anyone who reads his blog will automatically come over to my blog to see what I am saying and he will be exposed for what he is. His blog is a platent attempt to slander me whereas my blog is obviously intended to help people who have suffered at the hands of a Narcissist.
So beware, do not ever under estimate the depths they’ll go to in order to destroy you.
If you suspect some one has hacked into your phone or computer talk to a techie, not the store you bought it from but some computer geek who knows the tricks hackers use. I went to the place I bought my phone and the kid said it wasn’t possible I talked to a friend of a friend who is a computer techie and most definitely someone can hack into anything they want.
Not to make you paranoid, but I am using my own experiences as an example of what they can do if they are sick enough.
Hugs to everyone!!