The Next Time You Want to Contact The Narcissist Try This


19 thoughts on “The Next Time You Want to Contact The Narcissist Try This

  1. Redrose

    I loved this one!!! In a relationship with a Nright now and he is constantly finding excuses to leave the house….to go see his newest victim, I am sure. It has gotten to the point where I am almost happy to see him leave, even though he is making it blatently obvious he is seeing someone else. Is it just me, or do they think we are so stupid that we don’t see what is obvious, or do they do these things knowing that we know, and just don’t
    care? So frustrating!!


    1. Cheryl

      I, too, can so relate to what you’re saying. My ex, was such a handful, I used to get to the point where I would feel like, PLEASE GO! Go to her, I just couldn’t deal with the King of the Castle syndrome or whatever, but it was always about him. It got to the point where my entire day was too be spent catering to his needs, serving him, handling his issues, then, he’d look at me and say ‘You don’t have s**t!’. Well I guess not I was neglecting what I needed to do for myself to be his butler or administrative assistance or s3x toy! Ohh, I can really get angry with myself for being so blind, stupid!! And true that on the ridicules lies, I used to tell him he thought there were rocks outside smarter than I was!! He is attracted to intelligent women, but the cockamamie crap he came up with was beyond insulting!


  2. missouriflower

    Reminds me of an old joke said by a nurse on the TV show MASH. One of the nurses said she’d like to Rock Major Houlihan (Hot Lips) with a real rock! I keep wondering why the devil hasn’t caught up with my ex yet,and removed him from walking on the planet. Yes, I’d like to rock my ex to sleep too with a real rock!


  3. Cheryl

    Hey Carrie, I was wondering if there was some way I could message you privately on an issue? I feel like I want to talk to someone about it, but am not ready to publicly speak on it. If that’s against your blog policy, I understand, but just thought I’d ask. Thanks either way.


  4. theabilitytolove

    They contact to see your reaction. ANY reaction will do, because it gives them an overwhelming sense of power.

    They don’t think you’re so stupid that you don’t know what they’re doing, they think you’re stupid because they’re so brilliant, wonderful and irreplaceable, they know you’ll stay and doubt yourself and continue to put up with their crap, despite all you ‘know’ about him. That’s how they think.

    They don’t care whether you know or not, as long as you’re PRESENT in the flesh, they know you’re contradicting yourself. Kinda like how they love bomb. They know when you know because they study you. They know when you’re so hooked, that no matter what you do, you’ll let them stay. This realization, for me, was finally what got me out and quick. I was tired of looking like his personal ass.


  5. The Heretic

    Are you sure the face is the correct location to be aiming the rock at? And are you sure just throwing it will be more sufficient than say…oh I don’t know…a large sling-shot or large PVC pipe fitted together as a potato bazooka and some aerosol type of window cleaner as a propellant, except replace potato with the aforementioned rock?

    Maybe a trebuchet would do the job.

    Just saying. 😀


  6. WordsFallFromMyEyes

    Wow, Carrie, this is… this is actually a very violent expression of love – not passionate, but violent, to me. Really well said this – says it very clear, underhand. Excellent.



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