When you think about it logically and rationally and not from a position of your pain and broken heart you realize you have so much to be thankful for. That you have some much to give the world and there are people who walk past you daily that need your smile or words of kindness but you are missing the opportunity to give someone else a reason to be grateful because you are focused on a heartless individual who has done nothing to make the world a better place.
You are wasting hours, days, years of your life moarning something that was only an illusion. You are wasting your life waiting for one person to change so you can be happy when you could be changing the whole world with a smile and empathy for your fellow man.
http://www.flickspire.com/m/LittleeInc/GratitudeHD?lsid=dbafc8047f25252b224a4f4c1b0bdfbf
There is life and light after the narcissist, I promise! Hugs Carrie
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I think everyone at one time or another thinks, "If I only knew then what I know now." I share my life experiences in hopes a few less people have to look back and want a "do over". Through my Lady Witha Truck blog I have spent 8 years sharing my experiences while being in an abusive relationship with a man I consider to be a narcissist/psychopath and through my other blog, Reimer Reason I share lessons learned throughout the 60 years of my life. No experience is a waste as long as you learn from it and if I can save someone else making the same mistakes I made, then it makes it all worth while.
I am an expert on my life, not yours, my opinions are my own, not yours, and I enjoy open respectful communication on most topics. If I don't have an answer I will research it until I do.
I have a sweetheart of a dog named Stella, a 4 year old Pitbull, Mastiff cross. I am artistic, enjoy bringing new life to antiques, gardening, refurbishing and repurposing other people's "garbage", reading, writing and being outside in nature.
I have a 34 year old son who I am extremely proud of and a 7 yr old granddaughter I don't see near enough.
I live on welfare after a lifetime of working full time because I have heart failure. I have gone from being a home owner and landlord to being homeless and living in my car.
I continually strive to be the best me that I can be and look at life as a learning experience and an opportunity to learn about other people and myself. Never a dull moment!
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