April 5, 2014April 5, 2014 by Carrie Reimer

Happy Birthday To Me

My morning started with lots of loving and messages from so many people, texts, FB, WordPress, Twitter, Linkedin. Haha what did we do before social media and cell phones??
Just some pics of my puppy and me . Going to go get showered and dressed now cuz I am going for lunch with my mom for my birthday in a few minutes.

And just a pic of the way I have rearranged my furniture.

Have a great day all!
My brother texted HB to me and I told him. “nothing special, you do anything 56 times its going to lose its appeal.”
Hugs
Me!!

There is life and light after the narcissist, I promise! Hugs Carrie

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K.L.Richardson says:

April 5, 2014 at 12:32 pm

A very happy birthday to you, Carrie! Even if you are a blase` 56 I wish many more for you!

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1. Carrie Reimer says:
  
  April 6, 2014 at 11:38 am
  
  Kathy, thank you so much! I love that, a blase 56! lol
  
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GILLY says:

April 5, 2014 at 1:07 pm

BIRTHDAY BLESSINGS,,CARRIE! I ALWAYS ENJOY YOUR BLOG – REALLY HELPING IN MY RECOVERY FROM A U KNOW WHAT . SORRY ABOUT THE CAPS – VISION IMPAIRED.
dON’T WORRY ABOUT 56, I’M 70 AND SURVIVED 48 YEARS WITH A NARC. U R DOING GREAT
enjoy your birthday,
Gilly

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1. Carrie Reimer says:
  
  April 6, 2014 at 11:29 am
  
  Gilly, you are one strong lady to come away from 48 years with a N. No worries about the caps, just happy to hear from someone who survived almost 50 years with an N. Good on you to get out, it is never too late to start living. bless you and thank you for your kind words and birthday blessings.
  
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marrohop says:

April 6, 2014 at 6:20 am

Happy Birthday Carrie – HAVE A GREAT DAY – LOVE FROM ENGLAND,
Sue xxx

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1. Carrie Reimer says:
  
  April 6, 2014 at 11:02 am
  
  Sue, Thank you so much! I had a great day, relaxed and had lunch with my mom, talked to my son for an hour on the phone, snuggled my puppy nothing exciting but so void of any grief or unhappiness. It’s funny, once you spend 10 years walking on egg shells wondering how he is going to ruin your birthday it doesn’t take much to make the day special.
  Hugs
  from rainy Vancouver BC
  
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  1. marrohop says:
    
    April 7, 2014 at 3:31 am
    
    Glad you had a great Birthday Carrie – mine left me on my Birthday – best present he could have given me. Hugs
    
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talesfromthelou says:

April 6, 2014 at 6:34 pm

Happy B Day Carrie. It’s been amazing watching you for the last 3 years. Remember when the dogs were sick and you had no place to live? Oh boy, all the best! Lou

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Carrie Reimer says:

April 6, 2014 at 9:29 pm

yep, a lot has happened in 3 years. Mind boggling, and you have been along for the ride through most of it. Thank you my friend and neighbor!

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