Another good one from Kim about No Contact. I had to laugh because it was so accurate. The last time JC “apologized” professed his love and promised to change I asked him, “You have said it all before, why should I believe you this time?” and he said, “Well, this time I mean it.” yeah…….right. When I turned him down then it was my own fault he hurt me all those years and he said “Well it is your own fault I hurt you, you kept taking me back.” THAT was the most honest he had ever been.
A large percentage of people who’ve implanted No Contact with their Narcissistic partner will inevitably ask this question. Why? Because they are often consumed with missing the Narcissist, and they wonder if he or she has the same feelings of loss and sorrow…perhaps wondering if there’s a chance to rekindle the relationship.
The short answer is no. When we ponder if the Narcissist misses us, we are projecting our feelings onto them. The important thing to remember is that Narcissists do not think the way we do, nor experience the same emotions that we do. They operate solely from ego, so the usual emotions of missing someone or feeling sadness or regret typically don’t affect them. Below are the most common stages (emotional and physical) a Narcissist goes through when one has implemented No Contact (**These are not listed in order of rank. These stages are for reference and can…
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