excellent post by Kim, (again) Never ever try to beat the narcissist at his own game, you never win; even when at first you think you have, it is all an illusion and he has much bigger and worse things planned for you.
These search terms lead many people to Let Me Reach and could mean one of two things. Either 1) someone wants their Narcissistic partner to return to them, or 2) someone wants to exact revenge on the Narcissist.
Neither of these scenarios will play out in reality as they’ve played out in your mind.
1) “Winning” the Narcissist Back
Let’s consider the first scenario, which is that you want the Narcissist to come back to you. Perhaps the two of you have just “broken up”, it’s your fifth time breaking No Contact, or you’ve made a half-hearted attempt to show them you won’t accept their abuse any longer. Either way, you feel as if you just can’t go another day without them. Thus, you resolve to wage a campaign to win back the Narcissist’s heart and persuade them to return to you.
The error here is that you assume the…
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