Dating Red Flags

For those of you who say you will never date again and for those who want to date……oh hey! that means everyone!! 🙂 from my our friend Stephen.

The Narcissist's Son

Annmarie, Carrie, Pam, Barb, Jill, Julie, Mary, Lisa, Michelle, Alyce, Brenda, Melissa, Cheryl, Gail, Toni and Shelley.

The above is a list of the women with whom I have been on at least one date in the past 12 months. My goal with presenting this list is not to try and gain praise for my prowess in attracting a date, but as means to show what red flags I have spotted while dating. I currently am not dating anyone and have decided to take an indefinite break from the dating scene.

It is my belief that spotting red flags is is a major aspect of learning to heal, to learning to trust our gut instincts and act on them.

Below are some examples of how I’ve spotted red flags when I’ve been dating:

I dated a woman for about 8 weeks last Aug / Sept who was terribly codependent. Both her mother and father could…

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My blog is not technical, I am not a counselor or mental health professional in any way. I am a survivor of domestic abuse by someone I consider to be a psychopath/narcissist. I had no idea what had happened to me, I have shared every step of my recovery and every bit of information I have found on narcissists and psychopaths; good and bad, in hopes it helps someone else. I try to provide factual information and verify any information I share. Please do not use it as a substitute for professional help and if you are suicidal or fear for you safety please seek professional help. This blog is meant to raise awareness about an epidemic that will affect 1 in 3 women in their lifetime, globally. In North America at least one woman a day dies at the hands of her intimate partner. They don't have stats on how many children or other family members die because of domestic abuse. There is a recent increase in mass shooting in the US, with an alarming percentage of the shooters having recent reports of domestic violence. Domestic Homicide is one of the leading causes of female deaths beating out car accidents or attacks by strangers. 55% of female murders are committed by their intimate partner compared to 5% of male murders. And only 16% of female murders were committed by a stranger. Personally, I had never been in an abusive relationship prior to my ex and I did not understand the dynamics of an abusive relationship, that is why I will continue to have this blog in an attempt to raise awareness and hopefully save lives. Namaste Carrie

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Almost daily I receive email or messages on one of my other social media from a victim of narcissistic abuse requesting to speak with me privately. As much as I would love to be independently wealthy and able to help everyone free of charge I just can not. I don't have any secrets that I only share privately, everything I know about narcissists I share here for free. But if you feel you need one on one consultation I can be reached at reimerc@outlook.com to make arrangements for personal, private support for a fee. Please email me to discuss rates and what your needs are. I look forward to working with you on your journey back to the land of the living! There is life and light after the narcissist, I promise!! Talk to you soon. Carrie

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