Is Empathy A Choice – And Does The Narcissist Have A Choice?

  This could be one of those posts that stirs up some controversy. Right off the bat I am going to put a disclaimer; this is just my opinion, who knows I might change my mind on it down the road; so if anyone has a different theory, please....... tell us what you think. I … Continue reading Is Empathy A Choice – And Does The Narcissist Have A Choice?

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Sharing Your Pain

I watched a Tedx Talk tonight that I found interesting. For those of us who have experienced a person's eyes glaze over when you start to share what you have been through. I think we have all figured out that when most people ask you how you are, they really don't want to know. They … Continue reading Sharing Your Pain

What We Are Teaching Our Children By Example

I received this comment yesterday and I am making it into a stand alone post because I think it is so vitally important for everyone, even people without children. Here is the comment from Martina. "It’s crazy how similar everyone’s story is. Mine crashed two vehicles withing a one month span. One there was a … Continue reading What We Are Teaching Our Children By Example

The Benefits of Journaling & Going To Court

For most of my life I didn't keep a journal, who has time for journaling? Especially when you have a narcissist stirring up all kinds of drama in your life. I used to think too that my emotions were too raw and there was so much shit going on I didn't have the energy to … Continue reading The Benefits of Journaling & Going To Court

When You Hear The Truth – You Know It

I was sent the link to a site today and was so impressed with their description of a narcissist I put the link in the sidebar of my blog, but here it is again; Anonymous Conservative. It is the only other site I have read that told the same kinds of stories as what I … Continue reading When You Hear The Truth – You Know It

Talking About Rodents……

As you all know I still moderate comments, not because my ex might comment as Norma Rockwell again (that still makes me chuckle, really, when you think about it they are a good source of comedic material. If you have been with a narcissist you always have a rich collection of "You can't make this … Continue reading Talking About Rodents……

Rodent and Pest Control

I came home last night about 9 with Stella and she immediately started sniffing around the couch and trying to look underneath it. It always freaks me out when she does that but every time I have gone and checked there is always a bone she has shoved under something and now can't reach, so … Continue reading Rodent and Pest Control