I have to give a warning about someone who comments on my blog. I have had my eye on him for a while but he was not doing anything wrong as far as I could tell. I didn’t always agree with what he had to say and at times he seemed to be trying to goad me into a fight or something; but I didn’t see that his comments were harming anyone so I let it be and just made a mental note. It’s funny how you can pick up on insincerity even when you are on the internet. And there are ways a person talks that even when typed give them away.
I have been busy and got behind on reading and replying to comments and came across another comment that made me suspicious, something didn’t sit right with me. At first I couldn’t put my finger on it, the name was not one that I recognized. But for some reason I knew I had seen this person comment before so I did some checking.
As you know when you comment your IP number and email do not show on the screen for everyone to see, but behind the scenes I am privy to all that info if I want to research it, I can go back to the very first comment I have ever gotten on the blog. I had the time today and this is what I found.
What really caught my attention was this man approached a woman on the blog who was obviously very distressed and there is a guy (it turns out to be the same guy) who has done this before on the blog and I told him not to put his email on the blog. If a person puts their email address in a comment the spam bot will automatically flag it for me but this guy was smart (but not as smart as me) he put his email address like this: “nathanpayne1913 and that would be at hotmail”. See? so tricky. But it made me suspicious right away.
Something about the name Payne stuck out for me, I even had the name written on a notebook I keep for to write things down I want to remember.
So I searched for any comments made by a Nathan, Nathan Payne, and someone else a guy that usually goes by Doug. I have had my eye on Doug for about a year because he had put his email in a comment and I had noticed he changed his username. This is the history of this guy
10/13/13 He commented as Doug Payne, his email address was coomadoug xxxxxxx and his IP# 58-168-3-40
3/18/14 User name Coomadoug email coomadoug xxxxxxx IP# 203-33-192-230
3/18/14 User name Doug email coomadoug xcxxxxx IP# 58-168-55-65
9/19/14 User name Frank email coomadoug IP# 203-33-192-230
11/28/14 User name Falcon email coomadoug IP# 230-33-192-230
11/29/14 as above
12/14/14 Nathan Payne, email nathanpayne1913xxxxxxx IP# 203-33-192-230
1/05/14 User name Cooma Doug email coomadoug xxxxxx IP# 209-85-215-50 & IP # 209-85-217-172
1/22/15 User name Allan Honicker email coomadoug xxxxxxxx IP# 203-33-192-230
1/21/15 User name Nathan email nathanpayne 1913 xxxxxxxx IP # 203-33-192-230
If by chance anyone of these names has somehow contacted you via my blog or any blog beware. I try to catch these trolls but I am not always successful. I try to catch anyone who puts their email address in a comment and tells someone to contact them.
No matter what site you are on I want to be very clear that narcissist hang around these sites and will appear to be a victim themselves in order to suck someone into their web of deceit. The victim is so vulnerable they are just so happy someone is showing an interest in them and seems to care they could easily get taken advantage of and hurt again.
I don’t know what this guy’s game is but it is obviously not an honest one. I have forgotten what user name I used on a site on occasion but I know that it is going to be a variation of basically the same name, This guy goes from Frank, to Doug, to Allan. I would say he is up to no good or very confused.
Whenever you are approached by a man on a website please be very careful.
A couple of years ago a young woman had a blog and one of the visitors to her blog got very friendly, they carried on with an online love affair for over a year. He sent pics of himself and his home, his boats, called her every night, they “fell in love”. He asked her to come down to I think Cuba (not sure now where it was but it doesn’t matter) for a week so they could meet in person and she was so excited. She was confident he was who he said he was, they had talked for a year.
She got down there and he ended up attacking her and she ran for her life, no money in a foreign country the hotel helped her get home. She was devastated and told her story on-line naming the man and what happened. All of a sudden the internet exploded with women who had been approached by the same guy, LOTS of them. He was married, had children, was NOT who he said he was at all. it ended up being a huge mess with the police getting involved and everything.
So beware and be careful!! My ex used to tamper with my truck right under my nose and even get me to help him; the best cover for these creeps is to hide right under the victim’s nose. They are sick like that.