OMG Scott did it again! Another great post from Scott (by now 1/2 of you should be following him because I reblog so many of his posts so sorry if you have already read this post)
I have written about this myself many times but it is always worth repeating, and sometimes worded in a different way something clicks.
Lately there have been a few people stuck on grief (and the sofa) and I thought they gain something from this post.
BTW for me it has always been gardening or any activity where I make something beautiful with my hands and get almost immediate visual gratification for my efforts
I am asked this question all the time. How do I leave? How do I stand up for myself? How do I lower my expectations of this person? How do learn to be happy in the mess that is my life right now? How do I let go of the grief or the expectations or the unrealistic dreams? How do I forgive? How do I move on?
It’s a question as old as time. Letting go is something that I only learned through pain, and it wasn’t worth it. How do you let go of hopes and loves and connection? How do you let go of a dream?
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