In a home affected with an abusive narcissistic parent emotions are repressed and become twisted. Rules are built on shame, guilt, or fear. Feelings are often not shared and when they are expressed, it is done in a judgmental manner placing blame on one another. The narcissistic parent is self-involved and feels no empathy for their children. They are incapable of mirroring real love and try to get their children to fulfill their unmet dependency needs. The narcissistic parent’s unresolved drives for attention and caretaking takes center stage as the child’s early developmental needs are ignored and denied. The self-involved parent shames the child for having desires and makes them feel guilty. All of the family attention and energy is focused on the demands of the narcissist.
Sensitive children growing up in abusive narcissistic homes build their personalities based on what they have to do to survive. Many of these children…
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Yes yes yes everyone needs to read this ,
This is totally PAS. Thankyou for putting
This info on your web. It is heart breaking
Thankyou sooooo much.
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Eveg, you are welcome. I always like to pass along info I find that may be helpful to someone.
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