This May Be Offensive To Some

I want to give you fair warning that this post may be offensive to some of you because it is going to contain a word I personally hate and I am sure many of you feel the same way I do, but I just have to make a post about it for several reasons.

  1. It proves once again that a narcissist does not change.
  2. It gives new meaning to the most offensive word in the English language (in my opinion)
  3. It might give you a laugh
  4. It demonstrated the fuckedupedness of how the narcissist brain works I don’t have the pay for IP tracker program any more and downgraded to the free version; so it only track 500 visitors per day. I don’t check it often but once every couple of weeks I will go in and have a look around, (it also tracks unique visits, repeat visits etc, all info that is nice to know). The last time I went in there was a visitor from Powell River again, so I kept a closer eye on it and they were in several days in a row. Now anyone in Powell River could be visiting my site, it doesn’t have to be my ex but in the past any time someone from Powell River visited my site something bad happened in my life, such as a drone outside my window, long lost friends calling to “just see how I am”, anonymous calls of complaint to welfare, landlords, and bosses……so I tend to take notice and start to watch my back when Powell River shows up on my visitor list.

I did a search on his usual User Name and came across his new blog and this is the post he had made.

“50 years wasted on cunts that were wrong for me.

At your very best, you will not be good enough for the wrong person.

At your very worst, the right person will be doing what they can to help, while still loving you.

It took me 50 years to figure that one out.

50 years wasted on cunts that were wrong for me. At least I figured it out.”

I hate the word, cunt; to me that is the worst thing you can call me. But! when I read it my first thought was;
“Finally!! he admits I was right all along. He is the one with the problem. Either he is attracted to psycho bitches or he turns them into psycho bitches but either way he has a problem.”
Then I thought, wait……what the hell is he saying? does it even make sense? there is nothing profound there. He has had it many times in his life, with every “cunt” he has been with.
Personally, if I met a guy and he told me that every woman he had ever been involved was a cunt, I would be running to the highest hill!! Even before I met my ex, for one thing I hate the word cunt but it is not possible to only date cunts unless you have major issues yourself. If a woman was complimented by a guy telling her she is the only woman he has dated that isn’t a cunt, I would wonder about her!
His statement is so hate filled, he obviously has not done any work on himself in the past 5 years. I have to wonder which woman he is trying to impress with this spewing of hate and self righteousness. Have no fear, she will join the ranks of cunts he has been with soon enough.
I came up with an acronym for C.U.N.T.S that has changed my whole view of the word and you may like it also.
C aring U nselfish N aïve T arget of a S ociopath
Yep. That would make me a cunt alright!
How about you? are you  cunt too?

22 thoughts on “This May Be Offensive To Some

  1. Gayle McElhanon

    OMG! Incredible, I have mixed feelings about calling a woman a cunt. I am unique because I am not following this blog because I am the victim of a male narcissist. I am the victim of a female sociopath, and in my rage and anger at this female sociopath, I think of her as a cunt. It is a title she deserves. Carrie, I don’t think you deserve that title, people earn their titles. I once had a renter who threatened to burn my house down, and called my mother a whore just because she couldn’t pay $450 a month in rent (my mother was considered a saint by everyone she knew, no kidding). I actually thought it was funny when she called my mother a whore because I knew who my mother was, and I knew that was an insane statement. This renter had a bumper sticker on the trunk of her car that said, “BORN AGAIN BITCH!” It was a title she was proud of. Let me point out that there are male sociopaths and female sociopaths, they are all EVIL on an equal basis. When I was young and working in Texas State government I did experience 3 years of intense sexual harrasment from a male narcissist. This male narcissist drove me so crazy that I ended up seeing a psychologist for 3 years. His sexual harrassment and gaslighting screwed up my head big time. I could see him posting a comment like the one you posted. I have experienced both male and female sociopaths and I consider the women just as bad as the men. If you KNOW WHO YOU ARE, a statement like that makes no difference. He is just talking about himself. He is the male cunt.

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  2. Tracy

    It’s funny when you begin to understand how their twisted minds work because you can read or hear something they say and realize that they actually were telling you along that they were sick but you just couldn’t hear it because you wanted to believe they were thinking like a normal person. You kind of rephrase their comments in your mind to normalize them. But once you finally get it… I don’t think there is any going back. You can’t un hear what they are saying. They just scream “I’m a self absorbed pig!”

    I mean his first line admits his best will never be good enough. This sort of let’s him off the hook of even trying…but were he trying to do his best…it would be what is best for him and only him…it would never be what is best for her or what she asked for or what she needed. It would only be something for him so go figure why it’s not going to make her happy.

    His second line says when he is at his worst she is expected to still love him madly and blindly and “help him”. Really? Because when he decides to be bad…he is very bad…and it is with malice and intent and no small bit of planning. It is designed to suck the wind right out of your sails and to flatten you. And then they sit back and watch with glee as you scramble around trying to clean up their mess. They never ever clean it up…there is no helping…its you alone over and over and over again trying to stem the chaos they just conjured up for kicks.

    There can never be a right person for them because the right person could not be a person. The right partner for them would have to be a machine…with an extended service warranty and a lifetime guarantee of never thinking for one’s self, never having any wants or needs of their own, never running out of energy or means, never having one single ambition in life but to single mindedly be there for whatever he needs whenever he needs it.

    Only a Stepford wife could ever be the right one for them. But that would deny them the pleasure they gain from torturing a good hearted soul. I don’t think a robot could muster up a look of anquish and real grief that is like hitting a home run to them when they get that to register on their victim’s face. That is their payday…the feeling of power and control. That’s when the jackpot bells go off and they say to themselves, “Gee…look how special I must be that she stays with me when I am so bad to her!”

    Urghh…they are giant gaping infectious wounds…you could shove your entire beautiful soul into that massive hole of a human and it would never be enough. You would merely stifle for a moment the haunting voice in the back of their heads that ceaselessly haunts them with the fearsome truth…that just maybe they are nobody…just maybe they don’t have super powers…and just maybe their walk on this planet is as completely meaningless and insignificant to the universe as the lives they trash for fun.

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  3. Dorothy Harkins

    My ex has been married to his second wife for 40 years so that proves to his family, our son and his friends that the failure of our marriage was my fault. His wife is pitiful looking and looks like she is dying.

    On Thu, Apr 7, 2016 at 2:51 PM, Ladywithatrucks Blog wrote:

    > Carrie Reimer posted: “I want to give you fair warning that this post may > be offensive to some of you because it is going to contain a word I > personally hate and I am sure many of you feel the same way I do, but I > just have to make a post about it for several reasons. It prov” >



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