How Do You Know If You Are You Being Tracked?

Unfortunately, there is no way of knowing for sure without going to alot of expense and even then, you won’t know for sure.

In November it will be 8 years since I left my ex, and I know he had a tracking device on my vehicle before I left. So this is not new technology and it is even further advanced than this video warns. I know!

All they have to do is call your phone and you return their call. The minute your phone connects with his phone, just his voice mail; he has access to all your information.

I was diligent about not answering any calls from numbers I didn’t recognize but I had started a new job and I got lots of calls from numbers I didn’t know. I had seen the call come in and not answered. I checked my messages but they didn’t leave a message. I debated, should I return the call? Or not?

I stopped for smokes at the Husky Gas Station around the corner where I lived and decided to return the call.

After all, I hadn’t heard a word from my ex in a year and 1/2.

I was entering a new exciting phase of my life, just gotten a new job, just signed a rent-to-own agreement and moved into a sweet cabin on a lake and I had to stop being paranoid.

I punched in the numbers, it rang twice and then I heard his voice telling me to leave a message.

I dropped my phone like an electrical shock had travelled the phone lines and hung up as quickly as I could without saying a word.

Immediately my mind exploded with questions, “Why did he call and not leave a message?” “Why would he call and then not answer when I called back?”, “What is he up to?”. I never got another call from that number and I never called it again and I tried to just put it out of my mind.

I suspected he had hacked into my phone when strata counsel where I lived started getting annonymous complaints about me as did my landlord and boss. Plus my (new to me) truck broke down.

It was all very dejavu….. I told myself to not be paranoid, anyone I told that I suspected he had somehow hacked into my phone, acted like I was paranoid.

I took my phone to the store where I bought it, they checked it and said there was no way it had been hacked into, there was no tracking app installed on it and to be safe just shut off my GPS.

Once they have access to your phone they have total access to ALL the information and apps on your phone. You can shut your phone OFF and they can turn it on without you ever knowing. It can be off, sitting beside you and they can access your GPS.

While still with him, with his sister in my truck right beside me as a witness; my phone started playing this John Mayer song popular at the time. It would play the same song at random times during the day and wouldn’t stop until I took out the battery and rebooted my phone. If you don’t know the song here are the words;

I was born in the arms of imaginary friends
Free to roam, made a home out of everywhere I’ve been
Then you come crashing in, like the realest thing
Trying my best to understand all that your love can bring
Oh half of my heart’s got a grip on the situation
Half of my heart takes time
Half of my heart’s got a right mind to tell you
That I can’t keep loving you (can’t keep loving you)
Oh, with half of my heart
I was made to believe I’d never love somebody else
I made a plan, stay the man who can only love himself
Lonely was the song I sang, ’till the day you came
Showing me a another way and all that my love can bring
Oh half of my heart’s got a grip on the situation
Half of my heart takes time
Half of my heart’s got a right mind to tell you
That I can’t keep loving you (can’t keep loving you)
Your faith is strong
But I can only fall short for so long
Down the road, later on
You will hate that I never gave more to you than half of my heart
But I can’t stop loving you
(I can’t stop loving you)
I can’t stop loving you
(I can’t stop loving you)
I can’t stop loving you with half of my
Half of my heart
Oh, half of my heart
Half of my heart’s got a real good imagination
Half of my heart’s got you
Half of my heart’s got a right mind to tell you
That half of my heart won’t do
Half of my heart is a shotgun wedding
To a bride with a paper ring
And half of my heart is the part of a man
Who’s never truly loved anything
Songwriters: John Mayer

You can see that having this song randomly play throughout the day was a total mind fuck when I am packing to leave him. No one would have believed me, thank God his sister was with me everyday and witnessed the bizarre events but then people thought we were both crazy!

At least I knew I wasn’t crazy, I finally had a witness to the bizarre things, the “coincidents” that kept happening.

– how he never ever got home before me but would arrive within 15 minutes of me getting home. I even used to get home and leave if he wasn’t there trying to get home after him.

– how even though I bought two new batteries for my truck and had my whole charging system checked the batteries were dead every morning. (She marked the batteries with a permanent marker. Sure enough they had been switched out)

– he always seemed to know exactly what we did and talked about every day.

– he would just happen to show up where ever I was.

– she was the one who found the wire leading from his shop to a receiving device under the trailer where we lived.

– she was there with me in the truck when we heard a man’s voice coming from the glove box. Kato even cocked his head and stared at the glove box, his sister tore the glove box apart but found nothing. My ex had said he was putting a new radio in my truck just a week prior but it was exactly the same as my old one and once he was done the heater stopped working. We had laughed at how he had screwed up the heater but then we put 2 and 2 together and figured he must have put some sort of transmitter in the truck and we must have picked up some air waves of someone’s cell phone or baby monitor or something. I don’t know enough about it to know all the intricate details, I just know he was listening.

Unfortunately, most victims don’t have a witness and when they tell people they aren’t believed because it sounds so far fetched. The police want solid proof not a “feeling” and the narcissist is so good at playing the victim going to the police becomes futile. People think you are paranoid and even you start to doubt your sanity.

After the episode when I returned his call the mechanic where I worked put a new deck on my truck. He came to me with something tiny in his hand and and asked, “Do you have someone who would be stalking you?”

My stomach lurched, “Why?”

He looked and at the thing in his hand, “Do you know what this is?”

Me, “No.”

Him, “It’s a tracking device. I found it under your deck.”

Me, “That little thing? How would he attach it, where was it?”

Him, “It’s magnetic. All he has to do is walk past your truck and slap it under your deck. 2 minutes. And you never know it’s there unless you know what to look for. Even then, I only saw it when I took your deck off.”

I told him about the strange phone call and how I had been getting anonymous complaints to strata etc. He nodded knowingly, “Sure” he said matter of factly. “They call and hang up. If you don’t receive any other calls before you return the call he is automatically connected to your phone, camera, apps, music, whatever. And the kicker is; even if you shut your phone off, if it is in the room with you he can see and hear everything.

I have had a drone outside my window. There are drones capable of crashing your laptop so it never works again. I know!!

I got sick of trying to get people to believe me. I am sure my own family thought I was nuts, I just gave up trying, it made me sound crazy and paranoid.

People say, “Who would do something like that? Why?”

I’ll tell you who does something like that; a psychopath does that. Why? Because he is a psychopath that’s why. And it’s a safe bet it is not in your best interest.

But does a narcissist do something like that? Look. There will be a bunch of narcissist who will tell you that they would never do something like that, they don’t care enough about what their partner or ex is doing to bother.

1. Narcissists are pathological liars, if their lips are moving, they are lying

2. Narcissists never admit to anything, deny deny deny

3. All psychopaths are narcissistic so it is all but impossible for even professional therapists to know the difference. Their traits are so intertwined; by the time you figure out your “run of the mill” narcissist is actually a psychopath; it’s too late and you’re in a fight for your life.

At this point a bunch of psychopaths are wildly typing comments about how they are not killers and I don’t know what the hell I am talking about.

I won’t argue with a psychopath or narcissist; I don’t make random assumptions or state something is fact unless I have experienced it myself or done a lot of research. I fact check everything I type.

Watch some ID TV, Fatal Vows, Sleeping With the Enemy, The Killer You Know, all true stories.

Google search, “How to track my wife”.

“How to get any woman to do anything you want”

“How to hack my wife’s phone”

Do not doubt your gut instincts. Don’t let him guilt you into giving him the benefit of doubt. Your life is hanging in the balance. And No, I am not being melodramatic or an alarmist.

6 thoughts on “How Do You Know If You Are You Being Tracked?

  1. John Doe

    I’m not an expert on the subject, however I am reasonably certain of certain tell-tail signs that your phone is being monitored, and I can sympathies with you ( 90% of the time your phone is being monitored, its being tracked as well) this is simply because it all comes with the software packages available on the market today. Search MSPY or Spyzie and review what their software can accomplish if someone gets possession of your phone for as little as 5-min (that is if you have no screen lock) Your phone must be unlocked to download the software and they MUST have physical possession for 5-10 min)
    If your bf/gf/ex/spouse, whoever is named as the owner of your phone purchase contract, they can legally track ANY phone listed under the contract, legally.

    Keep your phone auto screen-lock on and for as short as possible.

    Tracking cars is a little different. Unless you are real lucky, and at the same time your ex is not very good at hiding something the size of 2-match-box sticks, you cannot determine if you are being tracked. There are counter surveillance devices on the market from anywhere from $200 to $3,000 that can pick-up the radio frequency that the GPS transmits to its satellite. Just turn it on, follow the operating instructions and walk around your car and let it do its magic. If it alerts, now you still have to find it on your car. If its battery operated, it will run dead in no more than 2-weeks before they will need access your car again to recharge it. If they ‘hard-wired’ it, it will work as long as your car has a starting battery in it (which is generally always.

    That’s about what I can share. Stay safe


    1. John Doe

      Sorry, I forgot the ‘signs’ If your phone battery feels warmer than usual, in equal weather conditions, if your phone is dying quicker than usual under equal use times, if you hear noises while you are talking on the phone and you didn’t before, if your screen flashes at times or just does weird things, then its just a possibility that your phone is being monitored (not any guarantee) do a clean start on it. Save everything first, then factory reset. This while delete all programs except those that were factory installed when you purchased it.
      Again, I’m not an expert or claiming that this advice is comprehensive of the entire market industry today, it is constantly changing.


  2. John Doe

    I have been involved with a special women for 9-years. She turned on me about 2-years ago. She used her affair partner to get me terminated from my 24-years career. She had me arrested twice for Stalking when all I did was ask her to tell me if she is cheating on me. I caught her red-handed after 8-years of doing it. She quickly realized that she had been exposed for who she really is and if her family found out, it would be bad. Since I was the only one that knew besides her boy toy, she fabricated stories and did whatever it took to use her female advantage to put me in prison. She figured if I were in prison, no one would believe or listen to my claim. She would have a few years to rest at night knowing her family would not become aware. Extremely dangerous to out smart a narcissist, calling them out on what they do not want ANYONE to become aware of. Based on my personal experience, I feel I have a reasonable chance at being wrongly incarcerated or killed in the near future simply because I know what she did and my mouth can talk. If I could somehow collect evidence that she is malicious and intentional, it could help me tremendously in my case. I don’t know how though other than to trick her into getting an MRI of her brain.


  3. Mary

    Hope you alright but I found it odd that you can recall the exact details of the conversation when I read an old article about the same conversation but less detailed. This post seems more emotional than your old one that seems calm. Also the writing style seems different but maybe that’s just because I’ve read only two articles here. I’m thinking either someone hacked your blog or you’re just panicky and remembered everything. Sorry, I’ve just seen blogs exposing narcissists being hacked or stop updating because the Narcissist hacked it or reported it. However I hope you’re okay and prove to the police he’s stalking you once more.


    1. Mary

      I apologized if I seem to accuse you of being someone else and my statement “seem emotional” is verryy insulting. I mean, who wouldn’t be emotional if they’re being tracked again after all these years? I’m really sorry and hope that you’ll be able to get out of his clutches. Please be safe.



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