17 Tips For Fighting The Narcissist In Court

In Quora today someone asked for helpful tips for going to court against an abuser. I was able to come up with 17. 1. I always tell victims of abuse to keep a journal, if they don't think they have time or are not “writers”, then simply get a day planner and make notes each …

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What Surprised Me The Most After Leaving The Narcissist

One of the most surprising things about being involved with a narcissist was the total lack of sympathy shown by family, friends, and society in general, even the medical profession has literally laughed when I suggested the stress of prolonged abuse could be responsible for my heart condition. (I know doctors dont like people Googling …

Forgiveness and Healing After Narcissistic Abuse

I commented on a friend's Facebook post that argued people are wrong to tell the victim of a narcissist that they must forgive the narcissist in order to heal. I agreed and called bullshit!! on forgiveness. This was my comment. I think sometimes some good old hatred is needed in order to heal and move …

I Am So Ashamed – Why Am I Missing Him

I received a comment on the blog today from a woman who was confessing she had contacted her ex and didn't understand why she had when she knew what the outcome would be. Why did she continue to torture herself? In an attempt to find answers she had gone to a counselor and afterwards had …