Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?

I have always believed honesty is the best policy.  No matter what, when it comes right down to it, if you don't know what to do; go with honesty and let the pieces fall where they may. Lying only perpetuates more lying and almost invariably it will back fire in your face. Lying about other …

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Cognitive Dissonance and How It Helps The Victim Of Abuse Stay

Wikipedia describes cognitive dissonance like this: Cognitive dissonance In the field of psychology, cognitive dissonance is the mental discomfort(psychological stress) experienced by a person who simultaneously holds two or more contradictory beliefs, ideas, or values. The occurrence of cognitive dissonance is a consequence of a person's performing an action that contradicts personal beliefs, ideals, and values; and also occurs when confronted …

Valentine’s Day Post 3 Days Late

I honestly started this post in plenty of time to publish it before Valentine's Day but my health has not been great this winter and there are times I don't get off the couch all day because I can't sit without severe pain in my back. So here it is, better late than never I …

That Smirk, Those Eyes, Can Freeze The Blood In The Victim’s Veins

At first you don't know what it is exactly that makes you uncomfortable. My ex wore glasses, tinted usually; so you couldn't really see his eyes and I thought he was extremely handsome as long as he kept his glasses on. But when he had his glasses off I avoided looking at his eyes, they …