Lowering Your Standards Does Not Raise Your Self Worth

When we "settle" for less than we deserve, whether we realize it or not; our self-worth suffers. When we met the narcissist we thought he was a high quality person, someone with principles and high standards, someone in line with our high standards and morals. As we got to know him better we started to … Continue reading Lowering Your Standards Does Not Raise Your Self Worth

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Knowing Your Worth

Ocassionally I have a woman come into the blog thinking the man they are in love with is a narcissist because he won't commit. I have to tell them that just because a man won't commit does not make them a narcissist. For one thing a narcissist is not that honest. There is nothing wrong … Continue reading Knowing Your Worth

Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?

I have always believed honesty is the best policy.  No matter what, when it comes right down to it, if you don't know what to do; go with honesty and let the pieces fall where they may. Lying only perpetuates more lying and almost invariably it will back fire in your face. Lying about other … Continue reading Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?

17 Tips For Fighting The Narcissist In Court

In Quora today someone asked for helpful tips for going to court against an abuser. I was able to come up with 17. 1. I always tell victims of abuse to keep a journal, if they don't think they have time or are not “writers”, then simply get a day planner and make notes each … Continue reading 17 Tips For Fighting The Narcissist In Court