Lowering Your Standards Does Not Raise Your Self Worth

When we "settle" for less than we deserve, whether we realize it or not; our self-worth suffers. When we met the narcissist we thought he was a high quality person, someone with principles and high standards, someone in line with our high standards and morals. As we got to know him better we started to …

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Knowing Your Worth

Ocassionally I have a woman come into the blog thinking the man they are in love with is a narcissist because he won't commit. I have to tell them that just because a man won't commit does not make them a narcissist. For one thing a narcissist is not that honest. There is nothing wrong …

Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?

I have always believed honesty is the best policy.  No matter what, when it comes right down to it, if you don't know what to do; go with honesty and let the pieces fall where they may. Lying only perpetuates more lying and almost invariably it will back fire in your face. Lying about other …

17 Tips For Fighting The Narcissist In Court

In Quora today someone asked for helpful tips for going to court against an abuser. I was able to come up with 17. 1. I always tell victims of abuse to keep a journal, if they don't think they have time or are not “writers”, then simply get a day planner and make notes each …