That Smirk, Those Eyes, Can Freeze The Blood In The Victim’s Veins

At first you don't know what it is exactly that makes you uncomfortable. My ex wore glasses, tinted usually; so you couldn't really see his eyes and I thought he was extremely handsome as long as he kept his glasses on. But when he had his glasses off I avoided looking at his eyes, they …

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Rewiring Your Brain For The Holidays

(It has taken me a week to write this post, I started before Thanksgiving but I have been going through a depression lately due to my health and being denied disability yet again. I simply have not been functioning, the house didn't get cleaned, I didn't answer the phone, I withdrew. I am ok, just …

I Know Everyone Is Sick Of Hearing His Name

I have debated doing a post about Trump because the net is inundated with election rhetoric, everywhere you go someone is spouting about him or Clinton, it seems everyone has an opinion.  Friendships are being destroyed and people are being unfriended and blocked on Facebook. People are rioting in the streets, crying and fearful. Being …

Solution To Ending Narcissistic Abuse Begins In Grade School

I am sure most people do not realize that in many ways we groom our young women to be victims, and no one likes a victim it seems. We have no problem making children accountable for what happens to them but not so good at making they accountable for what they do. We are  society …

Take This Short Quiz To See If You Could Be The Victim Of Abuse

Society has many misconceptions of what kind of person becomes the victim of domestic violence. Seeing as October is Domestic Abuse Awareness Month I thought I would discuss the common traits of a typical victim. I held many of the common judgements of abuse victims all through my 20's and 30's; I can remember saying …

Advice If You Are With A Narcissist But Don’t Want To Leave

I got a comment on the "30 Red Flags" post the other day and thought it was a topic worth talking about again. I mean really, there must be some other advice when you discover you are with a narcissist, other than "RUN". I remember how frustrated I'd become when searching for answers years ago; every …