How To Love A Woman Who Has Been To Hell

There is a blog post making its way around on the internet, "How To Love A Woman Who Has Been To Hell and Back" "How To Love A Woman Who Has Been To Hell and Back"  It is a well written post and I am sure many victims of a narcissist/psychopath can relate, obviously; by the …

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Put The Bullshit Aside – This Is All That Matters

As promised I am posting another comment made by a visitor of the blog. I read it, walked away, cried, my heart broke, I took a moment of silent reflection; I hope she felt the hug I was sending her through the miles. I find it hard to imagine she didn't feel it because I …

Does Unconditional Love Exist?

I think many victims get stuck on "I love him unconditionally", "if I prove my love is unconditional he will eventually let his guard down and love me also". He has told us that his ex's turned on him for no good reason took him for granted, didn't appreciate all he did, cheated on him, …

Self Worth – You Are Not Who Loves You

You are not who loves you. Think about that. Let it sink in. You, Are. Not. Who. Loves. You. I answer questions on Quora, many of them are about narcissists but many of the questions people ask me are basic relationship questions and most of them are coming from young people. When I say young …