The Narcissist and Addiction

I had a question on the 3 Phases of a Relationship with a Narcissist post asking if narcissists are known to have addiction issues, the person said their partner is an alcoholic and sex addict. Almost all narcissists have an addiction of some sort and sex is the most common. Why? There are several reasons. 1.  Narcissists …

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Rewiring Your Brain For The Holidays

(It has taken me a week to write this post, I started before Thanksgiving but I have been going through a depression lately due to my health and being denied disability yet again. I simply have not been functioning, the house didn't get cleaned, I didn't answer the phone, I withdrew. I am ok, just …

When I Knew He Had Lost His Control Over Me

I think all victims of narcissistic abuse feel the same way I did; that no matter how hard they tried no one really believed them. The narcissist was telling outrageous lies about the victim and people, family and friends lapped it up; but when the victim tried to tell their side no one would listen. …

Advice If You Are With A Narcissist But Don’t Want To Leave

I got a comment on the "30 Red Flags" post the other day and thought it was a topic worth talking about again. I mean really, there must be some other advice when you discover you are with a narcissist, other than "RUN". I remember how frustrated I'd become when searching for answers years ago; every …

Dealing With A Narcissist Is Not Child’s Play

Many people compare dealing with a narcissist to dealing with a 3 year old and in many ways that is a totally accurate description. Like a 3 year old the narcissist will stomp his feet and yell that he hates you for not giving him his way and an hour or so later he is …

If You Were Told You Could Keel Over Dead Any Minute

If you were told you could keel over dead at any minute would you waste your time worrying about what the narcissist is doing? Would you want to spend your last breaths dealing with the chaos and drama of the narcissist? I can't imagine being with a narcissist and knowing I might die any minute …