I’m Rubber, You Are Glue

Remember back in grade school some smart ass kid that made your life hell and when you told him what you thought of him, he would sing, "I'm rubber and you are glue. Whatever you say bounces off me and sticks to you." or another favorite was, "I know you are but what am I?" …

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Eleven Things I Wish My 30’s Self Had Known

If you could go back in time and change things, what would you change? Because of the ripple effect I probably wouldn't change a thing because it would mean giving up something else. Even with my experience with my ex, as horrible as it was; I wouldn't change anything because it taught me so much …

Is It Tougher Being A Middle Aged Victim Of A Narcissist

I have been asked by a member of the blog to do a post on victims of a narcissist who are over 50. I haven't read anything about older victims, is there a difference between a younger victim and one who is middle aged? Or do they suffer the same over the same things? I …

The Psychopath’s Uncontrollable Need to Control

I received this message the other day. "Hi, I’ve never commented but this blog has really helped me come to terms w my own abusive relationship. I’m still pretty traumatized and don’t really know how to help myself but I’m learning all I can about cluster b disorders…I frequent a site called psychopath free and …