Forgiveness and Healing After Narcissistic Abuse

I commented on a friend's Facebook post that argued people are wrong to tell the victim of a narcissist that they must forgive the narcissist in order to heal. I agreed and called bullshit!! on forgiveness. This was my comment. I think sometimes some good old hatred is needed in order to heal and move …

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I Am So Ashamed – Why Am I Missing Him

I received a comment on the blog today from a woman who was confessing she had contacted her ex and didn't understand why she had when she knew what the outcome would be. Why did she continue to torture herself? In an attempt to find answers she had gone to a counselor and afterwards had …

How To Love A Woman Who Has Been To Hell

There is a blog post making its way around on the internet, "How To Love A Woman Who Has Been To Hell and Back" "How To Love A Woman Who Has Been To Hell and Back"  It is a well written post and I am sure many victims of a narcissist/psychopath can relate, obviously; by the …

Valentine’s Day Post 3 Days Late

I honestly started this post in plenty of time to publish it before Valentine's Day but my health has not been great this winter and there are times I don't get off the couch all day because I can't sit without severe pain in my back. So here it is, better late than never I …