I’m Rubber, You Are Glue

Remember back in grade school some smart ass kid that made your life hell and when you told him what you thought of him, he would sing, "I'm rubber and you are glue. Whatever you say bounces off me and sticks to you." or another favorite was, "I know you are but what am I?" …

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People Who Build Bridges and Those Who Burn Them

You may have noticed I changed the header picture on the blog. I took the picture this summer while Stella and I were at the river. We were wandering along the river, no houses in site, no sign of people and then there in the middle of nowhere is a foot bridge someone obviously put …

Rewiring Your Brain For The Holidays

(It has taken me a week to write this post, I started before Thanksgiving but I have been going through a depression lately due to my health and being denied disability yet again. I simply have not been functioning, the house didn't get cleaned, I didn't answer the phone, I withdrew. I am ok, just …

When I Knew He Had Lost His Control Over Me

I think all victims of narcissistic abuse feel the same way I did; that no matter how hard they tried no one really believed them. The narcissist was telling outrageous lies about the victim and people, family and friends lapped it up; but when the victim tried to tell their side no one would listen. …

What Can Someone Do To Get The Victim To Leave The Narcissist

Lately it seems I have had an abundance of mother's trying to get their daughter's to leave someone they believe to be a narcissist. I have a post on what to do and what not to do if you know someone in an abusive relationship but I don't talk about what you can do to …