Support Forum

 

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To all new visitors! Welcome!!
You have found a great group of supportive people who have all been through what you are going through and understand completely the devastation you are feeling.
You are NOT crazy and you are not to blame, you are in a relationship or just left a relationship with a narcissist/psychopath. You are not alone. Come as often as you like to vent, ask questions, cry, and get support and encouragement.
All I ask is that everyone is respectful of each other’s opinions and understands that most everyone here are at a heightened emotional state. While with the narcissist the victim lived with constant trauma, drama and were told constantly that they were wrong to feel what they were feeling and that they were flawed in some way; it makes sense they are very sensitive to criticism. 
Opinions are just that, if someone has a different opinion than you it doesn’t mean someone has to be right and someone has to be wrong. Everyone is entitled to voice an opinion.
I may have an opinion you don’t agree with and I am more than willing to back up whatever I say, so feel free to question me and I will explain why I feel the way I do. Not to convince you I am right but to explain why I feel the way I do and maybe I will give you some information you didn’t know before. Or maybe you will enlighten me. An exchange of ideas is healthy and how we learn. 
Just remember, narcissists are basically all the same but the victims are as different as people can be, we all have our own history and frame of reference. Please respect that!
Hugs
Carrie
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  1. Thank you,Martina.Im sorry you went through bad times and you are so lucky to be free.It’s harder when you have kids from him i’m assuming. But I don’t know why my narc does this silence,no communication treatment.!He just uses me and wants to get rid of me till the next time.It’s hell being with a narc!!

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    1. Yes, it’s hell but you can change it. I used to make excuses …what will I do as a single mom with three kids..I need to save a family…maybe I deserve it so I need to be a better wife and so on.
      Once it was done with life for me and mostly my kids was so much better.No more stressed,unhappy mom.Btw I remember that silent treatment also,making you think like you are going nuts.
      I would even write letters to him while we were husband and wife living in the same house with our kids. Explaining how much I was hurting and why.Response?Calling me crazy and laughing about it.That very same day he would come home and wanted to have sex..like nothing happened.
      Save yourself.You will feel like you should.Happy woman .

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