My gift to you; a safety plan for while you are still in the relationship with a narcissist/abuser and how to leave the relationship as safely as possible.
Never under-estimate your abuser, just because he has never been physically violent before does not mean he won’t be some day. It is wise to be prepared. Abuse always escalates, especially if the abuser feels he/she is losing control of their victim, ie: you leaving him
When in an abusive relationship it is very unwise to tell your abuser you plan on leaving.
70% of domestic homicides happen just before or shortly after the victim leaves the relationship.
Download this free PDF and take the time to go over it often and take the steps to keep yourself and your children safe.