The Victim’s Responsibility

I often visit other sites on narcissism, sociopathy, psychopathy, (whatever a person chooses to call their abuser) looking for information and new insight. There is one thing that is said often that I don't quite agree with and that is: that the victim's are co-dependent. I understand that we can only speak with any authority …


Lying and Wishful Thinking

from one year ago. There are a few new women emailing me right now that can benefit from this post

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When I found out JC had moved in with another woman the thing that hit me hardest was; now he was lying to her. Crazy thinking I know but I had clung to those lies for so many years, they gave me hope, were the base for my wishful thinking; without those lies I had to face the truth.

The truth was ugly and I had been avoiding it with a vengeance for at least the last 2 years. The last few years I used to pray he would lie to me, tell me any feeble lie, just anything at all!! so I could lie to myself.

The nights he didn’t come home and didn’t answer his phone I didn’t pace the house any more, I didn’t fly into a rage, I was numb, I just prayed he’d tell me a lie. I had stopped snooping on his phone and…

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Give A Narcissist Power And See What Happens

My blogging friend Lou shared this with me and I am passing it along to you. At first you might think "what does this have to do with narcissism?" It has everything to do with narcissism.We are consumed with our broken hearts, how we will heal and go on and because of that it is …