There are some misconceptions going around that have the potential to be dangerous to unwitting victims of a narcissist. Twenty years ago no one had even heard of a narcissist and a psychopath was someone depicted as running the Bates Hotel. I had heard of Narcissist, the fabled guy who fell in love with his … Continue reading Let’s Set The Record Straight, Right Now!
I commented on a friend's Facebook post that argued people are wrong to tell the victim of a narcissist that they must forgive the narcissist in order to heal. I agreed and called bullshit!! on forgiveness. This was my comment. I think sometimes some good old hatred is needed in order to heal and move … Continue reading Forgiveness and Healing After Narcissistic Abuse
Not wanting to flog a dead horse or start another debate on whether a person "should" or shouldn't forgive their abuser I want to share this article in Psychology Today that I found interesting. Near the end of the article they mention narcissists, which perked my interest. Check it out here.
There has been a lot of talk about "Forgiveness" lately. A few readers have voiced concern that I am not forgiving my ex and therefore will never find healing or true happiness. It was said yesterday that by not forgiving my ex he wins. First of all I really don't believe anyone ever "wins" in … Continue reading Forgiveness, The Bible, Oprah and Ted Talks