Forgiveness and Healing After Narcissistic Abuse

I commented on a friend's Facebook post that argued people are wrong to tell the victim of a narcissist that they must forgive the narcissist in order to heal. I agreed and called bullshit!! on forgiveness. This was my comment. I think sometimes some good old hatred is needed in order to heal and move …

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More On Forgiveness

Not wanting to flog a dead horse or start another debate on whether a person "should" or shouldn't forgive their abuser I want to share this article in Psychology Today that I found interesting. Near the end of the article they mention narcissists, which perked my interest. Check it out here.

Forgiveness, The Bible, Oprah and Ted Talks

There has been a lot of talk about "Forgiveness" lately. A few readers have voiced concern that I am not forgiving my ex and therefore will never find healing or true happiness. It was said yesterday that by not forgiving my ex he wins. First of all I really don't believe anyone ever "wins" in …

My Story In The Canadian Centre For Victims of Violence – Victims Matter

Well, it has been published, or part one has been. They broke it up into two parts and as usual I feel I could have done better. How on earth do you condense 10 years into 2000 words or less? An isolated incident maybe. How do you break through the preconceived beliefs of society to …