I Had To Share This Post From Chump Lady

Here is the post from Chump Lady As I was reading it I couldn't help thinking, "Come on lady! you don't know when to tell him you are dumping his sorry ass? You are still there and willing to stay behind with the children while he goes off to live his life with God knows …

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Word Salad 101 or Gas Lighting

I happened upon this video while looking at videos of clouds; gotta love the internet! the places a person ends up sometimes! Anyway, i am not nuts about these videos, with the computerized voices but I guess it is fitting seeing as the narcissist's speech is all rehearsed and programed. It was like so many …

The Difference Between Having Your Heart Broken and Having Your Soul Crushed

I have always thought cheating was cheating, how can there be a good cheater and a bad cheater? they all break your heart, they all break a vow, they all disrespect you. James introduced me to so many grey areas, opened my eyes to so many new experiences that I had no idea existed.  In …

Grief and Forgiveness from Divorce Minister

 After my post today I read this post from the divorce minister and I thought it complimented a lot of what I was saying today and have said many times in the past.The narcissist expects immediate forgiveness and to be totally absolved of any crime he committed and demands he not be held accountable or …