To A Narcissist-Image Is All That Matters

Narcissist don't care whether the praise and admiration is real; as long as it is loud and often. He doesn't care if his lies are believed as long as no one questions him on them. It is all about the show, how things look, not about reality or consequences. It is about immediate gratification. True …

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Advice If You Are With A Narcissist But Don’t Want To Leave

I got a comment on the "30 Red Flags" post the other day and thought it was a topic worth talking about again. I mean really, there must be some other advice when you discover you are with a narcissist, other than "RUN". I remember how frustrated I'd become when searching for answers years ago; every …

Maybe If I Wouldn’t Have Gotten Angry – (the narcissist wouldn’t have left)

Thinking that they could have somehow prevented the narcissist from leaving them or abusing them is one of the main reasons victims stay and find it so hard to let go. The narcissist leaves, immediately gets involved with another "love of his life" and appears so happy. The victim and the casual observer might believe …