Staying No Contact, Starting To Date and Being Strong

Hello everyone!! Oh my, so much has happened lately and I really have to do a post bringing you all up to date. I have not had an internet connection so in all honesty I haven't even been able to read most of the comments let alone respond or do a post but I have …

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Just For Shits And Giggles

I have not been around much and I have missed you all!! No internet where I am at and I have to drive up the road to hook up to the campground WiFi. I have popped in occasionally but never get past reading a few comments. I have to do an update post on what is going …

Answer To The One Question That Plagues Every Victim Of A Narcissist

With Valentine's Day tomorrow I am sure there are more than a couple people here second guessing their relationship with the narcissist, or whether the N was a narcissist at all. If they are stalking the N's social media and talking to friends or still communicating with the narc; they no doubt are being fed …

Oh The Lies We Tell Ourselves

What you don't realize right now, (because you are still talking to the N and still fresh out of the relationship); is how twisted your thinking has become, how dysfunctional the relationship really is and you won't until you cut him from your life. Believe me, you feel you love him this much because you haven't broken away from him. Once you get some distance for a good period of time, not a week or two, I am talking months; you will start to see things clearly and see exactly how sick he is and how sick you both had become. You will see how you assigned him emotions you thought he should be feeling instead of taking him at face value.