Not long ago a fellow named Tom commented on my page, "Playing With The Cards I'm Dealt" He said that the victims have to look at their part in the relationship especially what attracted them to the narcissistic and why they stayed, like Tom said, "the guy didn't pack you off, tie you up and … Continue reading Why Was I Attracted To The Narcissist ?
JC used to say, “If you knew the truth you wouldn’t be this upset.” I’d say, “Well tell me the truth then”. And he’d say, “You wouldn’t believe me if I told you so why bother.” A variation of this was, “If you knew the truth you’d feel really stupid for thinking what you’re thinking.” … Continue reading Out Of Africa
I said to my ex once, “I bet you really wonder about yourself” Him: “What do you mean?” Me: “Well all your ex’s are psycho bitches.” Him: “Yeah so, what’s your point?” Me: “I was just thinking that either you pick psycho bitches or you turn women into psycho bitches, either way you have a … Continue reading How Do I Move On After The Narcissist?
So many sites I've visited about narcissists give a list of characteristics that by the time you pick up on them you are in too deep; he has you hooked already. Prior to getting involved with JC I had what would be considered a stereotypical view of what a narcissist was like. I think many … Continue reading How To Not Date A Narcissist