For Under A $100 You Can Buy A Replace For Your Narcissist

As anyone who has been involved with a narcissist will tell you, they will bankrupt you financially and emotionally. They are a big black hole that will drain you completely before they move on to their next target. Then just as you are starting to heal, they will pop back into your life to test …

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Knowing Your Worth

Ocassionally I have a woman come into the blog thinking the man they are in love with is a narcissist because he won't commit. I have to tell them that just because a man won't commit does not make them a narcissist. For one thing a narcissist is not that honest. There is nothing wrong …

Eleven Things I Wish My 30’s Self Had Known

If you could go back in time and change things, what would you change? Because of the ripple effect I probably wouldn't change a thing because it would mean giving up something else. Even with my experience with my ex, as horrible as it was; I wouldn't change anything because it taught me so much …

Maybe I Was Wrong – Maybe I Am Crazy

One of the things that causes so much self doubt in the victim is the narcissist blames them for the narcissist actions or twists the facts, or tells the victim their way of thinking and feeling is wrong. James used to say that he could not handle my warped views, that I viewed life through …