Knowing Your Worth

Ocassionally I have a woman come into the blog thinking the man they are in love with is a narcissist because he won't commit. I have to tell them that just because a man won't commit does not make them a narcissist. For one thing a narcissist is not that honest. There is nothing wrong …

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When Will I Be My Old Self Again?

I hate to break it to you but you will never be your old self again, nor should you, for many good reasons. Here are a few reasons why you should take this opportunity to become the new and improved you. 1. Your old self got you into this mess in the first place, lets …

Eleven Things I Wish My 30’s Self Had Known

If you could go back in time and change things, what would you change? Because of the ripple effect I probably wouldn't change a thing because it would mean giving up something else. Even with my experience with my ex, as horrible as it was; I wouldn't change anything because it taught me so much …

Expectations – Do They Set Us Up For Disappointment?

I received a birthday greeting from someone from the blog this week, this woman's relationship ended one month before mine and she was saying how much the blog helped her to heal. Five years after D day and this is how she closed her message; it brought tears to my eyes; "My peace is now …