Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas!!     I want to wish everyone a Christmas Day of peace and serenity, filled with friends and family, lots of food, booze, laughs, and a light heart. Wherever you may be in this big world I want to thank you for all your support throughout the last year and the 4 Christmases …

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‘Tis The Season

This is my 5th Christmas away from the wospos. I am sitting here remembering that first Christmas away from him, I just wanted to give up and die, but like someone here recently said, they would give up if they could but they don't know how. That is the problem, we have to carry on …

Believing The Lies Because The Truth Is Too Ugly – Part One

  I think every victim of a psychopath/narcissist has done it; chosen to believe the lies because to believe what they know to be true is just too ugly.  In a romantic relationship it is often much easier to believe that we somehow "misinterpreted", "misunderstood" or caused the abusive behavior because to believe someone we …

A Journey Back In Time And A Glimpse To The Future

I recently was asked by the Canadian Center for Victims of Violence to write my story of domestic abuse for their monthly newsletter. She explained that the newsletter is read by law enforcement, politicians and other people responsible for change.I was of course honored to be asked but also felt the pressure of responsibility that …