I think many people are confused about the traits of a strong independent woman. They see a woman who's outspoken, in your face, and will tell you exactly what they think of you, and think she is a strong woman. So many victims will say they need to tell the narcissist what they think of … Continue reading Definition Of A Strong Independent Woman
Merry Christmas!! I want to wish everyone a Christmas Day of peace and serenity, filled with friends and family, lots of food, booze, laughs, and a light heart. Wherever you may be in this big world I want to thank you for all your support throughout the last year and the 4 Christmases … Continue reading Merry Christmas!
This is my 5th Christmas away from the wospos. I am sitting here remembering that first Christmas away from him, I just wanted to give up and die, but like someone here recently said, they would give up if they could but they don't know how. That is the problem, we have to carry on … Continue reading ‘Tis The Season
I think every victim of a psychopath/narcissist has done it; chosen to believe the lies because to believe what they know to be true is just too ugly. In a romantic relationship it is often much easier to believe that we somehow "misinterpreted", "misunderstood" or caused the abusive behavior because to believe someone we … Continue reading Believing The Lies Because The Truth Is Too Ugly – Part One